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This Sunday at Asbury Chapel

Our message scripture this week takes is to Ephesians 5:1-21. How do we walk in a right relationship with one another? That is our topic for this week as we walk through Paul’s writing to the church in Ephesus.

You are invited to join us at 2704 South Highway W in Foley, MO. Our worship service begins at 9:00 AM but we invite you to join us for a cup of coffee and a donut around 8:30.

We do stream our service on Facebook if you cannot be in attendance but we do encourage everyone to find a Bible believing fellowship and become part of the family of God.

Our worship services are casual dress, we have mostly contemporary music we invite you to check us out if you are looking for a church.

Bible Study

Bible Study October 12, 2023

Proverbs 8:13 (ESV)

“The fear of the Lord is hatred of evil. Pride and arrogance and the way of evil    and perverted speech I hate.”

As a young child I remember my mother telling me “I should not use the word hate.” I have followed her directions for my lifetime. The word hate is not in my vocabulary yet maybe it should be. Ecclesiastes 7:9 in the Old Testament mentions keeping our tempers under control and all through the scriptures we see the words hate, anger, temper, and they go on.

Is it okay to hate? From a human standpoint we might consider some sin worse than another. As an example murder affects more than the murderer. But thinking a bad thought only affects the one doing the thinking. But God hates all sin He does not distinguish about one sin from the other. There is no good sin.

It seems today we have lost sight of what sin is as we easily accept what we want the scriptures to teach as acceptable. You may think they are acceptable but if so why does a person not speak out against wrongs. Wrong is a wrong today as it was yesterday. We can speak against sin with condemnation.

We need a renewed vision of who God is and the fact that we are sinners in His sight. For the Christ Follower our sin is forgiven and He sees us as righteous. But that does not mean we will live a perfect life. But it does say to us when we do wrong we seek His forgiveness, then forgive ourselves and remain in fellowship.

God loves us despite what we do it is His desire to forgive us and welcome us into the family of God. We cannot excuse our sin or tolerate it we must repent at the time we do wrong and strive to follow Christ every day.

Seek God and know you will find Him.

God Bless.

Bible Study

Bible Study October 11, 2023

James 4:8 (ESV)

“Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.”

What do we hold on to that is so very important in this life? I read a story of a little boy who got his hand stuck in a valuable vase one day. No matter how hard he tied he could not free it. His dad told him “to open his hand and hold his fingers out straight as you see me doing then pull.”

His response was “I can’t do that daddy I’ll drop my penny.” How many of us hold onto things like that penny and lose something more valuable? James told us to draw near to God and He will draw close to us. We have to be willing to be drawn. That means He will come to us. We should not let something so small as a penny keep us from God.

The second part of the verse is equally important. Who cleanses our hands? It is us who have the hands. Who purifies our heart? Again it is the one with the heart. Who is the double-minded again the one with the mind.

Too often we wait for God to do everything when we should be making a move toward God. This verse outlines the way we are to do it. What is holding you back? Maybe nothing for many people all things are good with the relationship with the Father.

If there is something surrender it give it away give it to God.

God Bless.

Bible Study

Bible Study October 10, 2023

Acts 15:37 – 39 (ESV)

“Now Barnabas wanted to take with them John called Mark. 38 But Paul thought best not to take with them one who had withdrawn from them in Pamphylia and had not gone with them to the work. 39 And there arose a sharp disagreement, so that they separated from each other. Barnabas took Mark with him and sailed away to Cyprus,”

We have a constitution and Bill of Rights that allow for free speech. It is a guarantee in the first amendment. That means we have a right to our opinion even if it is in opposition to someone else. Everyone should be able to say what they believe without hurting someone or being criticized for what they say. As an example I support Israel in their war with Hamas, there is a Palestinian flag flying in our neighborhood. I disagree with them but I am not going to their house and destroy their flag. However, if they were to ask me how I felt I would gladly tell them my feelings and why I believe the way I do.

But if we disagree how do we handle it? No one should be so offended with an opposite point of view that they refuse to be civil. No one should take their ball and go home because of a disagreement. I remember on several occasions in the business world introducing things I disagreed with that became new procedures. I would discuss them with my Sales Manager or Regional Manager then go about doing me job never telling someone who reported to me how I felt.

In the case of Paul and Barnabas they had a true disagreement. They had discussions but came to the point they could not go on together so Paul left Barnabas to do his own thing. There is nothing contained in scripture that says their disagreement alienated them as friends.

How do we handle disagreements? With grace and understanding or with anger and bitterness? Should someone be forced to accept my way of thinking? What will be our witness if we cannot handle conflict?

It’s okay to disagree but do it gracefully.

God Bless.

Bible Study

Bible Study October 9, 2023

1 John 2:16 (ESV)

“For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world.”

What does it take to be a real man? Many of us would remember a professional basketball player who will remained unnamed. He once bragged about the number of women he had an intimate relationship with the number was in the thousands. He was proud of his accomplishments. Too often that is the basis for what some think a real man is.

There could be nothing farther from the truth. However this is the way manhood has been for years simply put, measured by the wrong standards. Recently I shared a thought about being a role model but often society looks differently than a believer looks at these things.

It’s important we teach our children and grandchildren about right and wrong and sex outside of marriage and before marriage is wrong. It may be difficult for some who have guilty feelings about their activity prior to marriage. One of the requirements we set for doing ministry in a previous church setting was you needed to experience the issue you were leading a group in. For instance, GriefShare was lead by a person who had been through a deep grief experience. DivorceCare the same. In the past if we have done wrong we are the best teachers for sharing the experience and it impacts our lives.

If you are not married stay celibate until marriage. If you are married stay in a faithful relationship with the one you love. Adulthood should be defined by such things as integrity, honesty, patience, maturity to name a few attributes. Be different than what society and our desires tell us to do.

It takes a strong person to stay strong.

God Bless.

Bible Study

Bible Study October 6, 2023

1 John 2:16 (ESV)

“For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world.”

What does it take to be a real man? Many of us would remember a professional basketball player who will remained unnamed. He once bragged about the number of women he had an intimate relationship with the number was in the thousands. He was proud of his accomplishments. Too often that is the basis for what some think a real man is.

There could be nothing farther from the truth. However this is the way manhood has been for years simply put, measured by the wrong standards. Recently I shared a thought about being a role model but often society looks differently than a believer looks at these things.

It’s important we teach our children and grandchildren about right and wrong and sex outside of marriage and before marriage is wrong. It may be difficult for some who have guilty feelings about their activity prior to marriage. One of the requirements we set for doing ministry in a previous church setting was you needed to experience the issue you were leading a group in. For instance, GriefShare was lead by a person who had been through a deep grief experience. DivorceCare the same. In the past if we have done wrong we are the best teachers for sharing the experience and it impacts our lives.

If you are not married stay celibate until marriage. If you are married stay in a faithful relationship with the one you love. Adulthood should be defined by such things as integrity, honesty, patience, maturity to name a few attributes. Be different than what society and our desires tell us to do.

It takes a strong person to stay strong. God Bless

Bible Study

Bible Study October 5, 2023

Psalm 122: 1 (ESV)

“Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity!”

Baseball season is over for all but eight teams. I watched a little bit of the Arizona Diamondbacks game on Wednesday night. If they won they go on to play the Dodgers. They did win beating Milwaukee two games to zero to win their playoff series. At the end of the game after the last pitch for a strikeout they all celebrated the victory. They were hugging each other, showing a great amount of camaraderie in victory. Unity was definitely present.

David, the writer of this Psalm expresses excitement in worshipping with the people of Israel in the Tabernacle in Jerusalem. The bride of Christ is His church and the church represents to the world that bride. If we want to grow we need the fellowship of the church to grow our faith. As we see God move in other people’s lives our faith is strengthened.

Our private fellowship joined in with corporate fellowship causes our faith to grow. That is the importance of being a part of a Bible believing body who worships the living God.

As believers we need to focus on unity and being one in the Spirit. There are basic pieces of our beliefs that cannot and should not be compromised. Some things are not as important the translation we use, the color of the church walls those types of things. Along with unity there must be clarity in what we believe and the faith we practice. When we see this we will see unity in the body of Christ, His bride, the church.

Be committed to a body of faith. Be in unity.

God Bless.

Bible Study

Bible Study October 4, 2023

John 20:26 – 29 (ESV)

26 “Eight days later, his disciples were inside again, and Thomas was with them. Although the doors were locked, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you.” 27 Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here, and see my hands; and put out your hand, and place it in my side. Do not disbelieve, but believe.” 28 Thomas answered him, “My Lord and my God!” 29 Jesus said to him, “Have you believed because you have seen me? Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.”

In this life we have troubles it is a simple fact. No matter who we are issues arise that we must deal with. Family, business, relationships, church almost everything at some point has a trial we must deal with.

Thomas often referred to as “Doubting Thomas” had one of those moments in his life. His faith did not allow him to believe something without seeing it. We sometimes express similar doubt.

Thomas was not always doubting. Remember the words of Thomas when Jesus was heading back to grave of Lazarus. “let’s go, too and die with Jesus.” Thomas was willing to stand with Jesus when He was alive but doubted He was risen. He wouldn’t take the other disciples’ word for it.

Jesus didn’t criticize Thomas for what he was told by the others He simply said, “Put your finger here.” Maybe you haven’t been in Thomas’ shoes for a while and experienced doubt. Maybe it has been recently. If we doubt on a regular basis it can be devastating and we may lose hope. That is the goal of Satan to make you doubt. But Jesus told us to “stay strong.”

Jesus simply said to Thomas “put your finger here.” Sometimes we must do as Jesus spoke to Thomas and regain our faith. Practice living doubt-free.

Jesus is waiting to help you cast doubt away.

God Bless.

Bible Study

Bible Study October 3, 2023

James 2;14 (ESV)

“What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him?”

How often do we consider our destiny and the legacy we leave behind? I look back at my life and so many people come to mind that had an impact on my life. I remember my elementary teachers who showed me how to enjoy school as a very young child. There was Mrs. Walmsley, Mrs. Williams, Miss Eddingfield, and maybe my all-time favorite Mrs. Ellis in sixth grade. I know some reading will feel the same way as I do.  My coaches in junior highs school. I especially remember Oscar Estill our junior high basketball coach made playing basketball fun but challenging. He care for people who played for him.

These people had a commitment to make those who came before them better. Better learners, better people, better citizens. They left a positive impact on my life they gave back in a sincere way.

I am certain but I cannot say for sure but I believe those who most impacted my life were faithful Christ Followers. Their works in my life left me a better person for having crossed paths with them. Our works in the Christian life are important because that is what we do with our faith. Faith saves us but our works define that salvation.

We are called to do good. John Wesley left us with these words “Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as ever you can.” What we do for people is important in our lives.

When have I called that friend missing from church, and dropped them a note letting them know we miss them? How often have we shared a prayer with them? Maybe we could share a meal, do something special a little different for them.

Build into their lives to make difference.

God Bless.

Sunday at Asbury Chapel

Sunday at Asbury Chapel

Sunday we are looking at “The Believer’s Call to Be Pure” as we continue our look at the book of Ephesians. This week we are looking at Ephesians 4:17 – 5:14. We have been looking at Ephesians for the past few weeks and if you missed a message you can view our services on Facebook.

If we are to walk pure we have to walk in the newness of life. Our efforts to walk in unity only succeed to the degree that the indwelling influence of Christ is reflected in our lives.

If you are looking for a church for any reason we invite you to join us at 9:00 AM Sunday at 2704 South Highway W in Foley for worship. Come early for a cup of coffee.