Bible Study

September 3, 2025

Colossians 4:6 CSB)

“Let Your Words Be Graceful”

“Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you should answer each person.” (CSB)

“Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out.” (Message)

“Let your conversation be gracious and attractive[a] so that you will have the right response for everyone.” (NLT)

I have referenced three versions of our verse for the day. All three versions uses the word “gracious.” He meaning here – speak what is spiritual, wholesome, fitting, kind, sensitive, gentle, truthful, loving, and thoughtful “seasoned with salt.”

What is the purpose of salt? “It serves two purposes: one to add flavor and secondly to prevent corruption. Our speech should act not only as a blessing to others, but as a purifying influence within the decaying society of the world.” (John MacArthur).

There is an old saying that I would venture to say many of us have heard – “There are two ways to skin a cat.” (I do not know any ways to skin a cat). I believe deep down in the depths of my heart that al we speak must be spoken in love. There are multiple ways to say things but all things must be said in love. Our words should be words of encouragement, of opportunity to help others grow spiritually.

Sounds good but what is the application? Here are thoughts to consider.

• Compliment people – no matter who the person is there is something good you can find in them. Point out something that is good about them, maybe something they have done to help another person. They are there look for them.
• Be an encourager. If they are facing a difficult decision encourage them to move forward, try something new, “step deeper into the water”, challenge them with a new opportunity.
• Say a word of “thanks.” Let them know their efforts are appreciated even in the simple things, even in the things we expect them to do. I remember my mother seeing my grade card and if I got a “B” she was happy but nudged me to get an “A” next time. I felt like I wanted to do better just for her. You can always find something to thank someone for.

Do  not avoid letting them know you understand and support their feelings. They have a right to their feelings let them know you are there for them and together you can find a solution.

God Bless.